Dixie Deb - Harley for Life!

Ya Gotta Like Them..

Men are God's great creation for us gals. They are strong, sexy, mischievious devils-
boyishly cute and yet truly men. Males are full of testesterone... yet, 5yr olds at heart.

Harnassing this power for our use is just part of the great overall plan. BUT-
Ya do gotta like your man. Ya might not like hearing this but if ya can't play nice,
then unsnap that noose and let 'em go. Men gotta be your romeo in bed and your
full-time savior from the woes of the world. They are programed to provide for us..
they gotta put that sparkle in yer eye. Thats why they're here, right?

I hate when women snear at and otherwise abuse their man...
excepting those few men who prefer that treatment. **grin

Now I KNOW there are men who are tough to handle.. usually because of a former
female's claws.. and some have gone too far down that road. Then add the abuse
of alcohol & drugs to the mix? They say love can cure anything. I dunno.. I've seen
outrageous jealousy from men who are adored. Just beware sister, if ya can't make
his eye gleam, then find one who's you do. (and vice-versa)

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The Care and Feeding of a Man..

Always be pleased with what he does for you (even when you are not)

Gently guide him to what pleases you.. try to make it his idea.

Show special concern for his "hobby".. be able to discuss

Dress up for him often. Ask his input. Keep his eye.

Truly babying them will solve almost all problems.

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Dealing with Attitudes & Discipline..

It is true. Men are trainable.. although often slow to comprehend our wiles,
they are willing learners who can make remarkable progress if properly rewarded.
No men make progress when overpressed. Keep his list down to "major" items..

Being boys deep within, they will get out of line. Allow them to hang themselves
occasionally and things will balance out.

It takes tremendous work, love and patience to nurture a male. Again, make sure
you can put a gleam in his eye.. or all the work in China won't keep him around.
And make sure you can stand his ways.. for eons.. he ain't gonna change much.

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Reasons Why Its Worth it..

worth repeating.. He is built to please and serve.. and he can do it well..

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He has Gotta Go?

Make sure you are sure.. many will never return.

Dont play games.. they often don't play well for awhile.

Give him the respect of his territory.

Be fair about money. Life is tough enough.

NEVER use the child as a tool.. they suffer.

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heaven and hell both exist here..

it IS a choice